Sunday 26 January 2014

A day in the life of the Author of 'Who's Judging the Judges'...

So I daily received emails from people who want to know..
'who are you'?
'Tells us about who your are?'
'I love reading your blog and want to know more who you are?'
'Keep up the good work, I have struggled for years with the family court and reading your blog gives me hope that one day they might listen'.
'I want to read your books, where can I buy them?'
'Go get them Wendy, give them shit'!.

They go on...........................

Some know who I am, my story and what I do. But.........................

So far I have told my readers I have been a family court advocate for 12 years. This is true. I want to expand on this a little......

How did I become so involved in the Family Court?

My husbands own battle with this ex-partner. Yes the 'Dunedin Case' posted about here is my husbands case with his ex-partner. There is a face book group and she is named in so there is no secret as too who she is. We also have a book coming about his battle to see his son.

This case will blow your mind over how ignorant the Family Court is. And a mental note. She is a TEACHER, yes New Zealand you let people who abuse their own children teach others. Congratulations. All interactions with her have been tape recorded, including texts and threatening phone calls. New Zealand is the only country in the world who allows people with this type of history to teach children. Once again, congratulations NZ, your outstanding, you truly are.

Yes I maybe bias, but my husband is the most perfect man in the world. I come home at night and I have roses waiting for me, a cooked dinner and everything done (note I work 12 hours a day). My husband is my soul mate, he is awesome beyond compare! I would personally die for my husband. He IS perfect in every way.

Every one of my friends comments on how awesome my husband is.

We are also very 'in tuned' with each other. I came home yesterday to find a four poster bed in my room. Why? Because for the last four years my dream has been to have a four poster bed. Well my husband found a 'library four poster bed' at Harvey Norman and went out and brought it for me, to surprise me! (the library bit is for the fact I love books and write books). How perfect is that?

This is it..
http://www.harveynorman.com.au/library-queen-4-poster-bed.html

I have a picture of it in my room, but I can't upload it until I get to work as my mobile broadband wont let me. But I will upload it when I get to the office.

I had tears when I saw it.

Sorry ladies, he's all mine and you can't have him! He is tooo perfect!

Two months ago I lost my wedding ring and engagement ring. I had hired a car in Melbourne. But due to the 'heat' my fingers swelled up and I took my rings off and put them in the ash tray of the car. When I returned the car I forgot about my rings. They were never found :(

I was too scared to tell hubby. When I finally did he said 'That's ok sweetie we can buy you new ones and I can get you that eternity ring I have been wanting to get you'. Oh my god! was my thinking!
I thought he was going to be upset! I cried!

He's perfect! in every way. And that's how all husbands and wives should think about each other regardless. The 'divorcing generation' should hang their heads in shame'.


It makes me laugh at those who's marriages end after three years. My husband and I plan on being that old couple still holding hands walking together down the road (or around the mall). And sitting on our front porch rocking our arm chairs. This is how marriage is MEANT to be people!
Our friends tell us, if we can survive what my husbands ex puts us throughs, we can survive anything- and it is true. (yes, she is that evil and jealous!). Stay tuned you will get to read it all very soon.

Then there is my ex-husband. Oh yes it comes in two's people!

My ex-husband IS a domestic violent predator. ALL comfortably tape recorded AND now on youtube for your viewing pleasure or dis-pleasure.

To be continued...my laptop needs charging..............


Continued..

Ok, so my husband has a 'nutcase' ex, she admits in court to 'obstructing access'  and I have a 'mentally unwell' ex. Yes, do feel sorry for us. we have it all! This is why I symphonise with both fathers and mothers! we are the only people in new Zealand who have the perfect situation from BOTH sides. We have a mother who obstructs access for no reason and a father from the other side, who is a nut case.

You will not get a New Zealander who knows BOTH sides. Which is why I support both MOTHERS AND FATHERS fighting ignorance of the family court. Plus I am the most experienced at both.

Lets continue.

My ex-husband has mental health issues. He suffers anxiety, depression and manic depression episode. His GP doctor has him ladled as a 'hypochondriac'. He has a 'high users card' because of this. He suffers from what he describes, as 'dizziness in the head'. (or, if your a doctor, frontal lobe issues').

In layman terms, he's an idiot who has a brain tumour and mental health issues.

He is a ticking time bomb.

The police thought it was a fantastic idea to give him a gun license and access to guns.

A perfect 'suicide, murder' mix.

The family court thought it was a perfect mix to give him children.

Hands up who see's a disaster coming?

Yip, another family court massacre coming your way. Stay tuned to 'stuff' all the reporters know this case.

I left my husband in 2002 (that's a ruff guess because I don't dwell on the past like others) he had a 'manic depression' episode and attacked my son. (All recorded and coming to youtube this week).

Long story shot (long version on an international website and made visible to New Zealand in three weeks). For 13 years both my eldest children have been in my care because my ex- is a 'nut case'.

Get this...............

Note my first post on this site?

Well, Judge Laurence Ryan took offence to my first book about District Court Judges and instructed my ex- to take my children. As a 'ransom' and 'punishment' to me and my book.

Hands up who thinks that is a 'civilised' form of behaviour? 

Funny thing is my eldest went ' no way am I living with my father', and what does that tell you?
His father has continually abused our eldest child throughout the years, calling him 'stupid' among other name calling situations. My eldest felt undermined and his self-esteem went down due to this. So when it came to 'crunch time' my eldest said 'no way' to the family court'. (all tape recorded)

My daughter,  was lied too and manipulated by my ex-husband. But that has proven not to work because recently she cried to her lawyer that she 'misses her mum and bother and sister and can't understand why she can't see then'. She has been refused by my ex to see us because he is jealous and annoyed I put up his domestic violence tape recordings. Specks volumes for his character doesn't it!

Through the whole 13 years, I have NEVER obstructed access between him and the children. Yet I have been stopped from seeing my daughter who has said "I miss my mum". Wow, specks volumes for the New Zealand Family Court too, doesn't it.

I want to clarify to all my readers. I have never hurt my children in any way, shape or form. I have child psychology qualifications and  I AM ONE OF THE FEW IN THE WORLD TO HAVE CHILD CLEARNCES TO WORK WITH CHILDREN IN MY FIELD. I worked under the worlds BEST Child Psychologists for 12 months to get my clearance. I HAVE FBI clearance.

Guess who my daughters lawyer is..............and guess who my ex-husband's lawyer is.....

Guess what the Family Court don't want you to know about this case............

I'm going to tell you...............and I am going to tell you who my ex is, including his address and phone number.

























































 

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